Marriage/Divorce...er...

I must be crazy to blog about this...considering i'm a mere 17-year-old (well 16 actually...but turning 17 on 27th December *hint hint*) Anywayz back to the point...yea...as i was saying...i'm too young to blog abt this when i have absoloutely no experience on this... but after looking through a particular joke book...i was reali on these two issues...

Ok first...Marriage...wad is it? Some ppl say Marriage is the most impt day of anybody's life because that is when you officially say goodbye to your carefree, singlehood life and hello to sharing your life with someone for eternity.

What i find amusing and intriging is that when couples get married, their vow almost always includes: Till Death Do Us Part...and what happens? They file for divorce before wrinkles even start appearing on their faces! Couples do quarrel for the most trivial reasons i feel...like the way they should raise their kids (my parents are classic examples...one wants us 2 be independent kudos to that one the other showers us with PLENTY of love...in a weird way...) , or when suspicions of the other party having an outside affair takes over(happened to mua friends but i shan't say any names...DUH!)
It could also be when neither wants to give in, one party is too stressed out by the other party...yea..plenty of reasons...of course the MOST common reason is...*drum roll* Adultery...yeap! Well...since you've already vowed to be together with your partner for life...through thick n thin, pain, sickness blah blah blah...i'm not gonna' list the entire things out...why let a third party interfere? I mean...if there's anything u're unhappy with the other party, sit down n talk it out! It is during this period of uncertatinty between couples that third parties normally find it best to...erm...how should i put it...attack! THe result? Let's see...probably lots of hysterical screaming and threats of divorce coming out...yeap!

I read this in a joke book:

What happens after couples get married?
First year: The man talks the woman listens
Seoncd year: The woman talks the man listens
Third Year: Both talk the neighbours listen
Fourth Year: Their lawyers talk the court listens

Well...ok maybe the time period is a little exaggerating...normally the time period isn't this short...but sadly that is the truth...it is what's happening between many couples these days. For a period of time, the wife will listen to what the husband says and rarely talks back...this is the period where the newlyweds are the happiest together...new life fresh start...everything!
HOwever as time goes by, the woman changes...for some reason which i haf no idea why...hey! i'm a 17-year-old i haven't gone through that phase yet so dun ask me! Apparently she becomes more self-opiniated and she talks more while the husband listens more...
Later on, when the husband bottles up too much and explodes, hey presto! we have a huge argument coming our way...and yea...sometimes it gets so rowdy and loud that the neighbours can hear...
Following that...though only in EXTREME cases...they end up in court filing for a divorce fighting for custody of the children, who should get what properties...yea...


*scritch scratch scritch* husbands and wives should definitely treasure the relationships that they share...it's not very often that u come across someone who is willing to share and live their lives with you forever. Come on...do things that both parties enjoy...there must be some common interest right?? TO all the husbands out there, just accompany your wives to go shopping once in awhile it won't hurt! Yea u'll get bored but just bear with it...it'll do your relationship some good...To all the wives out there? do NOT be OVER suspicious of your husbands...it's ok to get jealous once in awhile...spices up the relationship a little actually...but don't go overboard or there's gonna' be a problem...

YEAP! That's it...i guess...forgive me for my inexperience in penning down thoughts on issues...-_-" check back next time!

movie n some crazy fun...

Today...well... went over to my friend's place to watch a movie...before that...i had to endure a couple of hours watching my brother n my friend playing games on their labtops ...like Gunz...O2Jam...i can't rmb if they played Dota...anywayz i was reali thankful that i brought my book along...n i had a dog to play with...his name's Jackie...or Jacky...geez...sry i dunno how 2 spell...

Anywayz we finally left to borrow a dvd...hmm...decided on the 2nd part of the series of Resident Evil. Then 2 of our friends joined us...at first it was juz me, my brother n my friend will...then another two meg n luke joined us. How nice...(no sarcasm here peeps) Anywayz the movie was pretty interesting...i haf only watched the first of the series...so yea...guess next time i'll borrow the 3rd ...Extinction. Hehe.

Following that, while my bro n will played Gunz on their labtop, the rest of us played Dai Dee. Of course i lost the game...we played fishing which i won...n Cheat(or as meg calls it, Bulls**t)which i lost too...

So where does the crazy fun part come in? Now. Apparently Meg carried me n turned around n around until i became very VERy dizzy. not to mention i was being carried in a horizontal position...like when a groom carries his bride...n erm...she even piggy-backed me...but that wasn't so bad...oh! we tried doin the Ballroom Dancing thingy...n i think i nearly stomped on her foot...a couple of other crazy things happened...but well...i guess this is enough...

Oh! i juz realised...i left my story book back at my friend's place...oh crude...-_-"

BORED!!!!!!!!!

2day i stoned the entire day...well...almost the entire day...i had Physics tuition in the morning...n i gotta' admit..,my teacher's a little crazy...FUN...but crazy too...well perhaps it's just his style of getting our attention...LOL. Learnt Magnetism...a J2 topic...had homework...decided 2 try it out at home...

But when i came home...i stoned in front of my labtop...watching horror movies...eesh...anything but work...i dotaed for awhile with my two friends...usin my brother's labtop cos my labtop was juz too laggy...anywayz i got totally owned...i reali need to brush up my skills...either that or get a new labtop...because my current one is infected so badly i think it's impossible to clear it...-_-"

Mmm...i drew something 2day though.......hehe...it's juz below...n composed some melodies for fun...




Aren't they cute??